Exactly 35 years ago today, I arrived in Toronto. I
was 22 at the time and back in 1988, there was no internet, a long-distance
call was barely possible and I knew nothing about anything. I only knew
two things about Canada. One: it was as far away as one could get from
the sunny shores of South Africa and two: it was always cold.
The simple young adult that I was – I went along with the
flow - not knowing what to expect – new territory and unchartered waters.
And the adventure that started 35-years ago today,
continues – thanks to the foresight of my awesome parents who unselfishly, gave
up so much to get myself, my brother and sister to a safer and more sane
society than South Africa was to become.
As I reflect, the first few years here were incredibly difficult.
Adjusting to a new way of life – and with very little in the way of finances to
speak of is not for the faint-of heart. It’s about perseverance, true
grit and determination. I’m fortunate in that these qualities are a part
of my being.
Make no mistake, I’ve paid my dues, paid my taxes and
contributed tremendously to society – it’s just the way I roll.
A proud and patriotic South African, I still love the
country that gave me 22 awesome years, equipping me surprisingly well for the
next 35 – and for that I am grateful.
Canada – my homeland – “With glowing hearts we see thee rise, The True North,
strong and free!”. It’s the words “strong” and “free” that resonate in me
mostly. They speak loudly to me. “Strong” in character and “free”
in spirit – this country has always allowed me to live strong and be free.
1994, 1997
and 2001 were pivotal years. In 1994, I married the most awesome woman I
could ever have wished for – Karen. In 1997, I became a father to Jason
and in 2001, we were blessed with Amanda. I’m so grateful to my family, a
diverse and broad set of friends, an amazing career and most of all – the
abundance of health I enjoy.
Today, I look backward and forward. Backward at what
has been three and a half decades of joy, laced with some awesome
accomplishments, I would never have thought possible. Forward to the next
chapter of joy.
But for now, I’m going to sit quietly and reflect – in an
all-to-brief moment of gratitude.
